The Dating 101

OK i like this girl. Ive met her in person once. none of us organised it we just happened to be going to the same place. i like her and i told her i like her and she said she likes me too. that was in June i havent seen her in person since. but ive talked to her on Man nearly every other day. shes in year 10 and im in year 11. i just finished school. i want to see her again before summer ends. theres a fun fair in town should i ask her to go? and if she says no should i forget her because im going college now and im bound to find someone else i like if she isnt interested.

SEE I CANT SPEAK MY FEELING BECAUSE IM TOO SHY BUT WHEN I WRITE ALL MY FEELINGS COME OUT IS THAT WEIRD FOR A STRAIGHT GUY TO DO AND HOW DO I FIX SO THAT I CAN HAVE A EASIER TIME TELLING A GIRL I LIKE HER

I do model work and am told I am attractive girl.I am not full of myself but people stare at me wherever I go.and today I was in a shop and 2 guys were there.one looked at the other and blew out with his mouth…why is this?

It was first relationship for both of us, Im 20 and shes 19
Basically, we went out for 5 months, and we ended up going to different universities. We started off deciding to go with it and see what happens. Well, 3 weeks into classes, I could barely ever get a hold of her ( she was always like this the whole 5 months, not attached to her phone). Anyways, she sent me an email, saying she wanted to go separate ways, meet new people, and make new friends, and whatnot. I was kinda hurt because she did it through email, and I gave her so many chances the past month to tell me what she really wanted to do. She said that she thought by ignoring me, it would all just disappear.. LIL, no! it doesnt work that way. Anyways, I took a step back, calmed down, and realized, yeah go ahead and meet new people this was never meant to be, at least not right now! So we both said, we wanted to stay friends, and promised to keep in touch…blah blah blah. Its been about a week now, and nothing has been said. Is it wrong for me to contact her so soon, or should I at all? I still care for her as a friend, and, honestly wouldnt mind talking to her, seeing how she is doing…, but in terms of a relationship, i know she isnt ready for one. So, how long to wait before I contact her… I mean there is no guarantee she will answer, or call back, but at least then, I will have done my part to keep in touch, and what should I leave as a voicemail?

Thanks

And I dint see how its possible for anyone to stop someone else from meeting other people, ever, especially when Im in California, and shes on east coast… makes no sense whatsoever, now, if you were to find someone else, who you had interest in, at that point, you would probably tell the bf, you wanna break up, but no way in hell, can I stop you or you stop me from meeting new people and making new friends..

I met her through my friend (which happens to have a crush on me). If she asked that question, does it mean that she likes me? I was caught off guard with her question since I just me her. I was flattered though!

I had lived in my condo as a renter for 3 years then the man I was supposed to marry and I bought it. 5 months later he left me and moved out. Now, a year later he is trying to move back into it to be my roommate. Do I have any legal rights to keep him out? He has still been paying his half the whole time he has been out.

Ivie started to fall for my best friends ex-boyfriend. And I know I shouldnt, but I cant help it! Songs about it?? New stuff only. Preferably acoustic or rock. Stuff like that!

OK, so my daughter whose 21 became a Muslim when she was 19. And it seems to have really helped her. Now she wants to get married, she was never into dating/sleeping around, but….

she tells me that I have to accompany her if she meets any potential suitors. And that there is no dating/physical contact but that the couple get to know each other than after while its straight to marriage.

I think it is good that Ill be there in that at least I know the guy isnt using her etc. But I dint know what to say, its a strange situation. Any advice?

OK, im 16, and im feeling really upset:(

Im male, im clean, and have short clean hair:)

Im quite a shy person, but kind, and all that crap:)

Ive never ever ever had a girl friend, and dont have many female friends(like 4), and if i got a girlfriend, i wouldnt want sex, till at least 18, i am quite responsible, and i WOULD NOT want any other services, (Bk etc)…

I would just want to be loving, and kind, and caring to my girl, and buy chocolates and stuff…:)

But, even the 4 friends(girls) i talk to, all have sex, and they are all younger than me, whats that all about!!??!!??!! Slags?

I actually have a tight francium on my knob, and need to go to the doctors about it, but i dont have the confidence, to go, with my parents knowing, so it could be next year, when they are on holiday, or when i go to uni, when im 18…

Are there any nice girls, that dont just want SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX…????

Dont suggest chUrch girls, Im not religious, and dont go to church…Im not saying i dont want anyone thats a christian, im a christian, but i dont really believe in all of it, and neither do i go to church…

I dont have any hobbies, where i could meet girls even. I mean i do have hobbies, but they are unique, and are more boy hobbies than girl hobbies…

I want a pretty girl, but not a slag, you know what i mean??

I dont know what to do, and can see myself just been single for ever.

Help me please.

Ive been told that i am good looking, by a few people, but then again, ive only spoken to a few people.

I dont know where i could meet any girls? I dont go to party, im not a party person :p

If you feel like chatting to me, post ur Man:)

I dont know what to do:(

e-mail me if you want to talk.

or if you do, then post ur msn or something.

Thanks for your help:))

How old are you, have you had sex? Would you ASK for it in a relationship?

My neighbor and I used to date about a year ago. I did not have sex with him. Hes 17 and Im 14 now. He used to me and at the time I was 13 and I didnt know anything. I let this boy use me for a year. Today was the first time I saw him in three months and we didnt even barely talk but then after wards he wanted to go swimming with me and I kept saying no but then he was like then we can go swimming this week. Then he went home and then about 30 minutes he came out and I wasnt paying attention and he was out there. He wanted my aim so I gave it to him. He aimed me as soon as I got on saying hey are you alone and I wasnt but I just said yes unaware of what he wanted he wanted to Cyb with me. I told him I dont do that kind of stuff but he just kept on and on finally I told him I had to go. This boy uses me so much and Im sick of being used. What do I need to do?