I think I’ve known him for a few days and he’s coming on way too strong for me. He’s flirting SOO much and acting like he really loves me. I’m not really used to a man flirting that much and talking so sweetly and so extremely interested in me. I dunno it’s kind of making me feel uncomfortable. :/ why? o and also we’re not dating. I only like him as a friend, don’t see him as a potential boyfriend either.

So I had a couple dates with this one woman I really like. The first time we hung out, she was thirty minutes late. Second date, she showed up an hour and a half late. I was a little flustered but I dealt with it. I took her to Santa Barbra and to a nice Italian restaurant. I had so much fun w/her and we spent the entire day together. Third date, she is SIX HOURS late. We were supposed to get together at noon. Her excuse: family obligations. I didn’t sit and wait for her. I actually cleaned my entire apartment, went to get food, bathed and cleaned my cat, cleaned my car, etc. She showed up at 6:15 stayed for 10minutes and had to leave because she had to be at a sorority meeting. During those 10minutes, I told her off (in a calm, nice way), telling her that I was upset and she needed to update me, either that or cancel/reschedule. She looked cute sad, but she looked kind of mad with her hands on her hips all defensive like. I asked her if she had any input or opinion she said “No you’re right.” I told her my pet peeve is flakiness. She responded “Oh then you probably won’t like me then. Things come up, with my family and stuff..so yeah.” It’s been a day and i thought about it. Maybe I should give her another chance, I said to myself. I called her two and a half hours ago. Left her a voicemail. No response. Not even a text. I’m cute . What should I do now? I wanted this to work and I treated her well w/kindness..why is she being like this?

My boyfriend and I were together for 2 years, we just broke up about 3 wks ago because we were bickering too much. I desire him so much and I want to get back together. Should I contact him? Or wait for him to contact me?
I have been keeping busy and im not moping around, its not that. I just want him back.

My man buddy thinks I should call him tonight and just ask if we can get together for lunch or something. Should I? I dont want to wait around and not even try to get him back. If he doesn’t answer should I leave him a message? Should I call or text?

I’m in college and I was going to sit down next to this girl. What are some conversation topics I can use besides the schoolwork?

im a dude of 17 years of age and im a redhead, well i guess not completely a redhead, im not a giner and the red is sorta auburn, brownsish darkish red and have noticed that alot of mexican women that like me, while blacks and whites do not really seem to care, for example, today, and this is true, i was running passes (delivering passes to classes) and in a class a few mexican women started staring at me and one yelled out actually saying “your HOT!” give me your number, and have had sever incidences like that but not much and none with blacks and whites, is it something with the red hair or something!? or is it just myself they like or something?
by the way im white
by the way, im not a stud or anything since im 6′1 and am 205 pounds so a slight overweight

My boyfriend and I have been going out for two wks now and I feel like I don’t like him anymore. Before we would say hi and smile and flirt but now..in p.e. we’re partners all the time and we just sit there and don’t say anything, i mean sometimes yeah but after it goes straight to silence. I know my boyfriend is shy around me and stuff but how can we smile more, talk,laugh and be FLIRTY!

I recently “lost” a woman I really loved because I was too annoying. I learn from my mistakes, and I will take it slow next time…

The problem is, I’m young, and I know I’m too young for a relationship! But I can’t stop thinking about different girls, how sexy they are, and especially that one woman whom I’ve annoyed. I got video games, read long books, and tried different stuff to make the time pass, but I can’t wait for years before I can get into a relationship…
My question is this:
What should I focus on, and make my main goal in life, if so far all I’m thinking about is getting a girlfriend? How can I keep my mind off of this for years?

I seem to have this urge to be nice to a girl, but the first (previous) woman I loved got annoyed by too much of my “niceness”. I want to care about a girl, make her feel special and loved… even though I probably don’t understand the true meaning of love…

PS. I don’t watch porn, or masturbate, which makes this so much harder to not think about!

PSS. I know you’ve been curious, so I’ll tell you. I’m 14 years old.

-PureHunger

I am a regular, single, straight, 31 year old guy. I have everything going for me – I am educated, I live with my family, have a nice car, I am in nice shape, I am working on a doctorate, etc. If anyone would have been in a relationship by now, it would have been me.

When guys learn that I am single, they express shock. I don’t know why this happens since most guys I know that are around my age have never had real relationships either. People also don’t believe that I have never had my first kiss yet. Why is that so hard to believe? And what is the rush to be in a relationship?

Ok so today was my first day in band class… for the year,

So this is what happened, that really stuck out..

My buddy (Abby) and me sit in the front row and this one kid took Tommy’s spot, so Tommy was like oh i guess I will just sit down here in the front row right next to where me and my buddy were sitting. Then me and Abby were just like staring at Tommy and joking around to make him laugh.. He’d be odd and put his stand up so he couldn’t see us, but yet he could still se me and he was looking at me. When my buddy would make jokes and then he would look at me. It seemed like he looked at me more than my friend

Then we were putting are instruments away in the locker room, He was looking at me when i was putting my stuff away. Then i said something and he made a comment like to joke about what i said. Then I walked into the locker room and I saw him looking at me when everyone else was looking at this kids phone. Then when he locked me in the locker room with these two other kids. He stood by the door that he closed the whole time banging. I was screaming his name and I heard him laughing. I walked out the other door to the room and when I walked in the band room I screamed Tommy locked me in the band room. Then he started cracking up.