For all those that decide to stick with the game, make sure it becomes a passion, not an obsession. Some people will get addicted to learning the game and how to play. They will go out constantly trying to learn more about pickup and nothing else. These people are called social robots (credit: Style). Being a social robot will consume all your time and can ultimately ruin your life. I would hate to see anyone lose their job or drop out of school to do this stuff. I’m not kidding, it does happen. Make sure you don’t become one of these people.

Have a life outside the forums. Do things with friends that aren’t associated with pick up. I’m sure that many of you will want to be the best with women and that’s understandable. I’m willing to bet that almost everyone here has had little to no success with women at one point in their life. I know that you want to make up for lost time. All of that is fine, but remember even good things are bad in large doses. If you feel you’re getting too caught up in this, take a break from it. Don’t sarge and stop visiting the website until you think that you’re ready to come back.

I’m going to hit you with some statistics, but I promise it’s only a few. You are already better than 99% of guys out there because you know this stuff. I believe I read somewhere that the average guy has sex with 3 different women in his lifetime. If you are committed to learning this you’ll be ahead of the curve quickly. So relax and just take it one step at a time.