The thing that stops most guys from ever achieving PUA status is approach anxiety. Every one has it and when you’re first starting out it can be fucking terrifying. It’s the feeling you get when there is a beautiful woman in the room that you want to approach, but feel scared to do so. You may make up reasons or excuses with your conscious mind as to why you can’t approach, but deep down you know there is no logical reason for it.

Approach anxiety is an instinctual response so there is no getting rid of it (at least not in your lifetime), but you can get used to it. There are many ways to fight your fear but the best way to do this is just get out there and do it. If you still can’t get yourself out to the venue, there are some of ways to combat that in the Introduction. Once you’re actually at the sarging location try to stick to the 3 second rule by Mystery of Mystery Method. The 3s Rule is where as soon as you see a girl you want to approach, you do it. Even if you have nothing to say it’s better to say “hi” than nothing. After your first few warm up sets, it should become easier to approach for the rest the night. The next day you go out you’ll encounter that fear again, it’s going to happen for the next few days, but soon you will have a handle on it. Approach anxiety will always be there, but eventually it won’t stop you from being social and you’ll be able to relax while sarging.