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How come some guys don’t make eye contact when they talk to me?

I work with a man who is really nice looking. He’s very smart, quiet, and reserved. And I get that. He smiles at me from a distance. But when he talks to me, he does not make eye contact. Sometimes I’ll look around and be like “who the hell is he talking to?” lol. I think he does the same thing to other women but I’m not really sure.

I just don’t understand it. I’ve met guys like this and at first impression I feel like they are cold and aloof. Help me understand this kind of personality if you can… please and thanks! <33

6 Answers

  1. R.L. says:

    Well I’m a man and I do that too sometimes. For me, it’s because I don’t want to make the other person think that I’m checking them out lol. And sometimes I’m just shy.

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  2. Anna says:

    He is shy, and loves you. So he doesn’t want to look you in the eye

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  3. John Barrot says:

    it means he loves you …

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  4. Dan says:

    it seems that this guys is a little shy and that’s nice for you because he loves you right?

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  5. William The Righteous says:

    I personally don’t believe that there’s any complex information to be taken from such a small behavioral thing. It’s probably totally meaningless.

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