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How to hang out with your boyfriend, without your parents knowing.?
So I have been dating this guy for 3 weeks, I am aloud to date, its just im not ready to tell my parents. But we cant not hangout until im ready, so I need some ideas of things we can together. And P.S He lives on the other side of the city….
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I’m in the sorta kinda same problem. I need to spend more te with my boyfriend!! I miss him too much …!! And he misses me… We tried going to the park and stuff buty parents won’t let me “stay after school” anymore and I’m nor allowed to date …. Wat do I do???!
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Ii think you such have to come clean out with it nd tell ya parents . Cuz like this
You don’t have to go around hiding. Nd if you really don’t want to
Tell ya parents try getting your parents to met him as a friend
Soo you would have a reason to go out with him without your parents knowing
That you are together
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K i tried that but my parents got soooo ma and took my musik ipod and phone for a while any other advice??
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just wait to date becuase if you dont then you will get in alot of trouble
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Really? You’re NINE! Nine. What are you and this boy going to do? I mean really.
Wait. Or you’ll look like a little slut
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wowww skittlegirl that was way past frikkin rude just keep youur mouth shut thanx bye!:)
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im not aloud to date, but you should have a good relationship with both. say you are friends, then in a few weeks, introduce him as boyfrend. do this all on comfortable time for you and him. I think you should be best friends wth ur guy. its easier. just be respectful to the rentz. talk to him bout it. if he really cares bout u, he’ll be understanding and u’ll feel better. good luck!
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Having same prob. I love my bf and he loves me, were both 13 gr.8. but my dad is super strict and my mom would problay be ok with it and shes seen him a couple of times and idk what to do.!!
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and he wouldnt hurt me or do anything I dont want to ^^
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Im 14 and my bf is 17 and we cant fugue out how to get together. My mom and dad know him but they dont know that we are together, and they really like him but there is no way they would let me go any where with him without them taging along. He said that he will drive over to my house but we want to do stuff and so we cant just do the stuff when my mom and dad are here if you know wht i mean so i geuss i could ask one of my friends to go to the movies and then just take off with him but then i dont wanna use my friends but i dont have any idea on how we can meet and my mom and dad are so tight up on letting mr go any where so ya idk but plzzz help me does any one have any ideas at all even if u dont think they sound good i cant still use all the help and ideas i can get thanks!
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Tell your parents that he is a friend, meet up at a restaraunt. And if there still not okay with it say that you need to study for a math (ect.) test.
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I have a huge prob!i go 2 a girls skul so i ‘ve known girls to b my frends all my life and i met dis guy who likes me and i like him 2.he’s my bf but i rarely see him cos my dad is SUPER strict!i love him so much and i want to c him,so i just go out with my frends and then meet him.but i want 2 see him alone and if i tell my dad he’ll kill me!i cant go out with him alone cos my dad has this way of always finding out and ill be in HUGE trouble with all of my family,and when i say all my family i meen ALL my family!help wat should i do ?
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i’m 18 so is my bf,we barely spend time together coz my mom is too strict she never let me go out,and if she does she constanly phone me.my dad is suspecting me,i can’t even make excuses to go out.its really hard.help me i wanna be with him
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i have the same problem and i looked this up to try and get some help but i realized something. all of you guys seem to be a lot older than me but STELLA tell your parents your dating. your 18. you should be able to make you own desicions. your technically an adult now. some of these answers seem a little easy to figure out and id be happy to help but i really need help. im in 7th grade and im dating an 8th grader. shes the best thing thats happened to me but im not sure how to ask her to the movies or something. i really like her and weve only been going out for a couple days. i need some advice. ill give some more advice to someone who asks. im in an accelerated program and know girls really well. i just cant talk to them myself. say goes for guys. since i am one i can tell you what we like and dislike.
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Good advice rob!
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i have the same problem, my parents dnt let me date, but my boyfriend goes 2 another skool n we never c each other we miss each other. Ever time we make a plan the dat we have 2 meet we have other plans. i really want 2 c him. we love each other for a long time like 5 years. so wat should we do. SO WAT SHOULD I DO I REALLY NEED HELP NUN OF U PPLE DIDNT HELP ME
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Chesca, you should make better plans… Talk it through with him… meet at the mall…
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So I am 17 and my boyfriend is 18. My dad won’t let me hangout with my boyfriend alone. And I haven’t asked him b/c normally he would have a bitch fit to over rule the conversion. Saying “I’m the adult; you are the child…” I feel like he is being a little over protective and not trusting my judgment. I’ve known my boyfriend for over a year. (We were friends before we started dating. And we have been together for 5 almost 6 months.) My boyfriend wouldn’t pressure me to do anything that I wouldn’t want to do. And respects my wishes. He really cares for me and wouldn’t try to hurt me if he tired… I just want to know how to make my dad realize that.
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I NEED HELP!! ok so my bf n I have been datin for 7 months 2mrw…..n he’s super shy as am I n we haven’t hugged, kissed, or even held hands. we dnt hang out outside of school, (since we g2 the same school:) but id lovee to go somewhere with him like a movie but w/o my parents knowin. they dnt mind me datin, but its awkward for me to tell them, n ill tell them on my own time. he’s not supposed to date, but who listens to their parents about dating…so somebody, anybody, if u have productive advice as to us goin on a date…or telling him id like to go on a date, id really enjoy it….THANKS!!!!:D
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If you know were he lives and if he lives near one of your friends then go to your friends and you, your bf, and your friend can go to the movies it works out perfectly i did that with my ex bf and we had a great time and we held hands and everything but that was when i was dating him
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Ok so im going out with this guy who is 14 2 years
And 7 months older then me and were inlove but the
Problem is he’s going to highschool and I’m just going to b
In 7th grade and I’m not allowed to have a bf my parents
Wont even let me b friends with a boy and my friends hate him and
He don’t like my friends says there annoying and they r but anyways
We have no way of seeing each other we have thought and thought but can’t
Come up with nothing so plz help I love him with all my heart
I mean i’v never felt this way before were been dating for 4 months today
And before we started dating he was my best freind so if y’all have any thoughts or ideas plz tell me it will mean alot and thanxs for the help
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will you should work thngs uut with your and he should to so you and him can see each other
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i have the same problem, im 12 and im going out with this guy who is also 12 his birthday is the day after mine and my parents wont let me date anyone but i never listen to them, his name is oliver and i really like him and he really likes me to but when ever we go to be alone and do things together at school people follow us everywhere and then if we try to meet up out of school we cant be alone because my friends have to be there or my mum and dad wont let me go out and trust me they find out if they dont go and its really annoying !! we have got this r.e. group homework thing to do and we were going to go round his house with my bestfriend and his bestfriend who are also dating, we want to do things with our boyfriends (nothing bad!!) but are scared someone will find out and our mums will find out HELP ME, WHAT SHOULD I DO ??!! xxxx:(
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Well ii am 12 years old too nd ii been dating my best guy friend for like
2 weeks now nd the same thing happens to mehh. We can’t met up anywhere just us two
Cuz my dad is friends with like the whole soo everyone knows mehh ( I live in a really small town) nd they also won’t let me out without my friends.
Well anyways just try to not go to places where you know alot of people nd also try to stay far from every public places like ii do becuz even thoo everyone in skull know nd his parents know too we try to not been seen together alot even thoo we walk home together. Trust mehh don’t be around alot of people becuz ii went out with a guy before the relationship ii am in now nd we went to places where we knew alot of people would not be at nd no one found out.
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I NEED HELP WILL YOU PLEASE HELP ME!
THANKS IF YOU DO
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i have a boyfriend but i am really scared to tell my mom because she might ground me for life and i need to know how to tell her because i hate lieing to her so someone PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THANKS YOU ROCK IF YOU HELP ME
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Age: 12
I loved going there to crawl through the tunnels and shoot myself down slides and I still do. My friend went there with me once and there is these little places that are all closed up and she went into one of those with a boy and I’m like W.T.F because she’s 2 years younger than me and the guy was like 2 years older than me. I was really pissed. :l Lol. Now I never had an actual boyfriend before so yeah. I wouldn’t have the guts to tell my parents I want/have a boyfriend..lol. Good luck, hope I helped. :]
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I hope this will help serve as advice for everyone ::
If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend and you want to go on a date w/out your parents knowing then tell your parents you’ll be going to the movies with your friends and have him/her meet you up there. Then get a seat seperate from your friends so you’ll be sitting with your bf/gf. Other options for a secret date: Afterschool tailgate parties, cookouts (during or after school), birthday parties, etc. Also, if you are a girl and one of your friends brothers is your bf, go have a sleepover with that girl and hang out with your bf there too. The best place I would recommend seeing your bf/gf withour your parents knowing is at school activities. Actually the best place in the world is as a kidsquest. I’m not sure if they have them where you are but where I used to live they would have a place called Kids Quest where you would go there and it was like a daycare for ages 1-15ishh. It has a huge structure in there that is my heaven playground. Lol
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K so I have fallen in love with this boy named Jordon, he is really nice, we have talked face to face a few times, but we mostly talk online. We both like eachother, and we were talking one day and we made plans to go see a movie, we invited out friends, I invited my step sister and her bf and he invited his friend Kyle. We want to go soon, but I’m scared because what if my parents have to pick all of us up, then they will assume that we r dating, although we are waiting till high school, because we both go to different schools, and dont want to wait forever to see eachother, where as with high school we get to see eachother everyday. We are both really excited! I just need advice on how to hangout with him without them knowing! And we are Facebook friends, and we would like to say that we are dating, but I have my mom and dad on Facebook and if they see I’m dead!
I really love him!
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Saaame here. im 13 and my bf is13 too, we text a lot and see each other at school.We hug and hold hands but i want to be with him afterschool so we decided to go to the park but i would have to be with a girlfriend and she doesnt wanna go and if i tell my parents im going alone they wont let me and they are so strict. heeelp?
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Well first off I have this bf and we been dating since last year on December 9 ,my ex broke up with me cuz of some stupid shit but anyways I love my bf too death the only thing is my parents r toooo freaking strict mostly my dad ,they hate my bf actually they don’t know I love him and that he’s my bf well it all started in the noting at school p.s my school is small so we kissed and madeout ,I was in the girls bathroom and he came in and well you already know we madeout and stuff like that till the principal past by and saw us we got in trouble she told my parents and my parents hated me and him they took away my phone couldn’t watch tv all I had to do was study -.- and my dad annoying me asking me why did u kiss him I told u to stay away frm him and I was crying I had no communication with my bf anymore and he got introuble to well to make this story short till this day my parents still hate him like you have know idea when I say hate they hate him and don’t want me to talk to him or EVN look at him but they ask me if I do I say no but at school I actually talk to him and hold hands when the teachers aren’t looking or else they’ll be snitchers and tell my parents well me and my bf made up something he’s planing on telling my parents he’s sorry for kissing me and what not but I know how my parents r especially my dad
hes always saying bad words about him and it hurts me like hell I nvr really spend time with my bf and he’s so sweet he’s the best person you’ll ever find in this world and because he’s 14 and am 15 age Is but a number it don’t matter I love him and if anyone can tell me what to do ? Or any advice?
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okay,,,your story is really big,,,but ill try to help you,,why dont you tell your parents that you wanna go out with friends as in all your girlfriends,,and if they dont beleive you make sure that some of your friends come over and talk to your parents and to make them beleive more,,make a plan of what your gonna do…like going to the movies….then shopping,,,,walking around then going to one of your friends place..stuff like that.and if they still dont .. tell them that ”if you let me go..i promise ill study well,,ill keep all my grades up” etc… well it depends if your okay with it,, and if they let you go,, be with your friends fer a while or not at all,,, and tell your boyfriend to meet you there,,but make sure your friends will handle it if your parents call any one of your friends,,and ask them to talk to you,,,if your not there tell your friends to say that your in the bathroom or something…
i realy hope i helped you..
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go to the mall with a group of friends and just hang with him, go ice skating or someting (on frday nights ice skating is really popular with a lot of people) or rollerskating, have a friend invite a buncha ppl over and if she knows him tell her to invite him, go somewhere with a group of people and meet him there (parks or the town pool haha) if you have a friend that lives near him go to her house and walk there, if he plays sports go to his games (if you know other people on the team) so it looks like youre watching a friend but youre really there to see him(maybe go out for ice cream after or something) uhh thats all i got thats what i do haha hope i helped:)
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well , i’ve been daating this kidd for likke ….idunno… a few weekks . i’m 12 , andd we pickked mii boyfriendd up andd mii mom droppedd us off at the moviees , buut they decidedd to “stay” andd see anothher moovie . mii boyfrieendd was beeing his *charming yet inapopriate self* righht in frontt of mii mom on accidennt . buut , mii mom didn’t findd it “funny” … how do i convince her he’s a good guyy ? i wanna go to his houuse , buut mii parents are so strictt ! how do i convincce her ?!
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ok, it can be simple, it can be difficult and it can be impossible. if your guy is kind, respectfull, and the complete opposite!! of every average teenage male, then it cna be simple. ill discuss it in 3 different replys if it will let me.
simple: if he is a complete opposite of every guy, then its safe to say he is a complete and total nerd. either fat, or reeeeeealy skinny. he doesnt get asked out much, your probly his first girlfriend / crush. just fuk up your computer somehow, and tell your parents, a school friend of yours can fix it. kiss him when i fixes the computer, hope for the best response from your parents.
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difficult: he is an average teenage male, except for the fact that hes perfect, smart, sporty, too good to be true, loyal, honest, etc. see above message and once again, hope for the best. (he is smart, dont forget, perfect)
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Impossible: he is not smart, he is quite dumb, and / or reealy smart when it comes to sports. go outside, and push a few nails through your dads car for 2 reasons. 1: Revenge!!, 2: your dumb, yet sporty BF is good at fixing cars.. isnt he!!! (if he isnt, teach him, make him take a few classes in car repairs, etc) and tell ur parents that u know a kid at school who can fix the tyres (DO NOT TELL THEM YOU PUT A NAIL THROUGH THE TYRE!!) when he comes over, kiss and hug him and call him the best, and pray to GOD ur parents allow it in some way
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these answers wont suite every1, and every situation, but, its all i can think of at the moment.. i hopes i helped some one
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I have a huge prob: my parents r very strict and will never let me c my bf out side of school. They axt likd they dont even care bout him but tgen i ask to go to the movies with him and they say NO!!!!! We have a big fight for over a week and finally my bf had an idea-i culd go with one of my friends elaine then just meet him there! It was a perfect idea except for tge fact thAt i cant go to the movies without an adult:/ i REALLY like my bf and i dont want him to get mad/ break up with me if i dint go cuzz i akready said that i prab will b able to but then tbe summers comin up and idk what to do cuzz i wanna c him but my parents saud i cant c him anytime during the summer!!!! They r soooooooo strict!!!!!! But i wuld NEVER EVER breaj up with him!!! PLEEEASE HELP!!!!!!! I DONT KNOE WHAT TO DO ANYMORE!!!!!:(
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well…purple..i have the same problem,but atleast your lucky your parents let you date guys,,if they wont let you go out to the movies alone..tell them that its a gurl’s day out…and that it needs to be private,,,and if they still say no..well it depends are you allowed to go anywhere else without any adult??? like hanging out at the mall..or parks..or somewhere else..???? if you are allwed take your friend their and meet your boyfriend,,,instead of the movies,,,,
hope this helps your problem…
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my friend has a boyfriend and they love each other yet i feel so bad because her parents hate him yet they don’t even know him, they don’t know they are dating and if they ever did know only god knows what would happen! she is sick of lying because her guilt has taking over her! how can she be with him without lying to her parents? help us
! thanks a million <3
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hm..well tell your friend to talk to her parents about her boyfriend…something interresting…that they will reallly like,,and if they try to soften up to him,invite him over for dinner and make her parents talk to her boyfriend..
but if they still dont like the guy..just tell your friend to tell them the truth .. tell your friend to tell her parents that she doesnt care and that she loves him alot and nothin will stop her from loving him…:) *hope this helps*
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i have a boyfriend ,, and i wanna hang out with him ,,im not allowed to go out alone.. and im not allowed to date guys untill im 18 ,, but i got caught alot of times dating…and i wanna hang out with my boyfriend but how will i make my parents let me go out?? and that also alone…?? please help..
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If you have a boyfriend, and you dont want your parents to know your hanging out with him here is what you can do: (sorry if you have already tried these things)
1) The next time you go to the movies/beach/mall with your friends, invite him too
2) If he drives a car to school (and you dont go to the same school), tell him to visit you when your having lunch at school.
3) The next time you go anywhere, and you want to see him even for just one second, tell him where your going so you can both “coincidently” see each other
4) Use webcam to talk face to face (its better than not seeing him at all)
5) If you have to stay back at school to do finish off school work or if you have practice for a sport your doing, tell your boyfriend to come and visit you
6) If your boyfriend drives, he could pick you up from school and drop you off at home. but not infront of your house, like a few miles away.
Remember, usually when your a teenager, you wont experience real love. Parents dont want their children dating because they think teenagers are too young to date, and they think its pointless to date while in your teens (well my parents think these things)
I hope this helps
i know its hard
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Go Someplace bye your self with boyfriend Braxton and all alone with boyfriend Braxton I Love You Braxton.
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omg, I know how u feel. the only difference is that my bf lives rite next to me lol. so its easier for me to see him but for some reason i barely got to see him for the past week. or talk to him barely. Mainly cuz of his mom.. but my parents know about the relationship but his mom doesnt so that mite be the problem… but still everybody thinks hes too old from me but i think its all bull cuz he only 16 and im 14. BIG DEAL. but all im tryna say is that you shood tell ur parents alredy so u can go see him sometimes. trust me its a HUGE relief if they know. I thought my dad wood kill me if he found out but he accepted it eventually and he even lets him come over
so jus tell them 
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I have a boyfreind and i cant see him over the summer. I really want to, but i dont have his home phone #! He doesnt have a cell phone or any other means of contact. I txt his mothers phone, and i sometimes get a reply from him, and his mom doesnt know were dateing, but sometimes i text love notes in French. I write : Je suis fou amoureux de toi. Tu me manques! Peut-être que nous pouvons passer du temps très bientôt? (Im crazy in love with you. I miss you! Maybe we can hang out sometime soon?) or Je souhaite, je peux vous voir cet été! (I wish i can see you sometime this summer!). I really want to see him! What should i do? I also want to kiss him, but im not allowed, my moms really protective! What should i do to kiss him and him not freaking out or my mom finding out about it?!?!
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im 14 and havea a boyfriend and i always gotta sneak boys over without my dad knowin about it and my mom is kewl with it jus not my dad he is a rasist bitch that cares bout nun but him self he wont even let me go to the movies,the mall,or my friends,he wont even let me have a guy over even if we under super vision by him he keeps my phone on lock down basicly and he wont even let my mom go anywhere he dnt trust us what do i do please help im tierd of sneakin around and i wont my dad to meet him but i cnt wit out my dad throwin a damn cow over bullshit please help?????????
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