So I have been dating this guy for 3 weeks, I am aloud to date, its just im not ready to tell my parents. But we cant not hangout until im ready, so I need some ideas of things we can together. And P.S He lives on the other side of the city….
Say youre meeting up with a friend
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Movies, dinner, bowling, going for walks…anything. Taking little trips together. Telling your parents would make it easier. Good luck
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tell your parents, if youre allowed to date, then whats the problem?
otherwise…lying is always nice, use your friends as alibis but let them know you are using them
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lie about it.
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you should have gotten ready before you started dating him.
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dont get pregnant lol
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hmmmm if u are old enough to date then u are old enought to make adults decisions
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Tell your parents that your helping out somewhere like a community service center or something and that you enjoy spending time over there. Or just grow some balls tell your parents you have a boyfriend.
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Find a place in the middle or between your house and his house to hang out at. For example: a movie theater or bowling alley or a park or something to do until you feel comfortable telling your parents.
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plan in advance to meet at a local place like restaurant or movies and tell your parents you are going with your friends to celebrate a b-day or sumthin and youll just meet your friends there. well it worked for me, and still does.
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Umm well if u have a web cam. . . . . . .. . . . . … Yall can talk 2 each other . or Send e-mail or text message or if u go to the same skool then hang out there or say u going to a friends house . . and go to his . .
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Have him come to you. Tell your parents youre going to the movies with your friends or are going to hang out around the city. If your parents are way overprotective…then actually meet some people you know that he knows and have all of you hang out at the mall (or someplace) and maybe go your separate ways from those people. If he goes to the same school as you do, then just hang out after school. tell your parents that you have to study with a friend. If you wanna be truthful, then study for 5 mins if you need. Invite him over and tell your friends that you have a friend from your school coming. Reassure them that he is a friend.
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Well im 13 and im not aloud to have a boyfriend. and my boyfriend keeps telling me that he want to hang out.. we both live by this really cute park but i want to do something more..
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well if u have a bf and ur mom n dad dont kno but ur aloud to have one then u just go over his house when his and ur mom n dad or at work and get out late so just go over and come back b4 they get home and dont let kno one kno kuz some ppl will get mad at u and might tell so try to keep it to ur self and when u think something inside is telling u to tell them then do it kuz that means ur ready so good luck with the releshonship ok gurl bye
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Well, I’m 14 and my bf is 17(: so yeahh, it’s hard to see him, especially with my tight ass parentals. any advice?
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I have the very same problem. Meet at a friend’s house close to the mall and walk there with your bf. That way, your parents think that you are just going to a friend’s house, when really, you are on a secret date. Also, pack nicer clothes to look good. If you were nice clothes, your parents might catch on.
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Honestly you should just tell your parents… Keeping your boyfriend undercover is waaay to hard!
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Yea, well i just turned 15 n my bf is 19 n my parents love him and his parents love me, but its not the age that matters, its how he treates you. If you love your bf like i love mine, dont let ANYTHING seperate ya’ll. Never ever. Love is forever, dont let someone get in the way of that.
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If you’re allowed to date, then tell your parents. If you’re planning on sleeping with him, get some condoms or talk to your mom about birth control. Or both. What I did with my first (and last) boyfriend was this: I acted like he was my “best friend,” so they were fine with me hanging out with him without “supervision.” Of course, I’ve been hanging out with more guys than girls my whole life, so I guess they didn’t see anything out of the ordinary when I had a guy for a best friend (even though I’d gotten big boobs and hips by then, which, really, was unavoidable). Just be careful, and don’t get an STD.
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Let your mom meet your best friend. Let her know that you guys are getting really close and that you will be hanging out with her a lot. Then make a date with him and just tell her that you will be at her house for a while. Just make sure your friend knows about it.
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my mom is catholic and so am i but my bf is muslim and we both really like eachother but there are 2 problems 1) my parents say i cant date yet 2)how do inter religous relationships work out i may be goin 2 mass and he would b prayin facin mecca
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actually im qoinq throuqh a crisis of my own, im 15 years old and my boyfriend is 17. we have been datinq for 9 months now and i love him to death. he is the one i want to share my liife with and he isnt in it for sex or anythinq, he has been so qood to me in all this time. at first my boyfriend came and asked my mom for permission to date me, she said yes; after the 3rd month she chanqed her mind. she made me “break up” with him, && told her i did when i actually didnt. i kept seeinq him secretly and he would come pick me up from school if he had the chance since he works. so i saw him at least 3 times a week, recently my mom saw a hickey i had and made a biq deal about it. she now picks me up from school every day, and has me qo with her every where. i tried lieinq about it && sayinq that a quy bit me on accident cause we were playinq “which me && my friends do a lot” but she still wont let me walk home, i miss my boyfriend so much && wish i could see him. any ideas? oh && my mom doesnt let me qo out anymore.
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If your scared to tell your parents that you like a guy, don’t be, my parents were happy for me! try it and you see what happens!
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If your dating a guy why worry about the parents first talk with the guy if you become his girlfriend then explain to him that he needs to meet your parents and talk too your parents ask them if its ok to meet with the guy and then the will take the decision.
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FUCK ur parents! see him weneva…wu gives a damn
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Ok I have a bf named Ray.
I have been keeping him a secret for OVER 6 months.
Here is what I do–btw I am in middle school.
1. Go to the mall with a lotof friends, you don’t have to mention his name….(:
2. Go to places to hang out where there will be a lot of guys, and girls. For eample Skate City.
3. You can always call him when your parents aren’t around, text him, email him. Put his name under a girl’s name such as Sarah or Emily.
Good luck!
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i say have one of your friends over with you and say your going to the mall or movie and have your boyfriend and hers meet you guys there and then so on
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