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How to talk to men in middle college without akwardness?
i like this guy, and in other questions, ppl told me that he loves me back and that i should ask him to hang out sometime. the only problem is, i don’t talk to him that much and wouldn’t it be odd if i randomly went up to him and asked him to hang out. thats about as subtle as holding up a sign that says i love you. or so i think. plus in middle college , if you ask a man somethin like that, every1 will think you like them. even sumtimes just talking to guys makes ppl think i like bthem when i dont. how can i become closer and buddies with this man without making every1 suspicous. i dont have much confidence so im not the type to just say, i like you, or ask sum1 out. please help!
Well, you do like him right? And you think he loves you? So what would be so stupid if guys thought you loved eachother, when you do.
Anyways, you’ll probably hear this over and over again, but there’s no magic trick, other than just going for it. I recommend you ask him to hang out some time.
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ok well if you dont really know him well at all like you never talked. Go up to him and be like hey your (name) right? and he will be like yea whats your name or like yea your names whatever. And then if hes in your class then just be like your in my ______ class right? and he will be like yea and then just be like well i have to go ttyl. Then like talk to him more and more like in the halls and in class and then just like be like we should hang out sometime whats your number so i can call you. OR just have your buddies introduce you. It will be odd but laugh it off just be like well that was a bit odd and he will laugh. thats how i got introduced to my boy.
if you know him well then it wont be a problem just ask to hang out sometime.
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I am in middle college and all of the guys at my college are really close to everybody so i am close to them but you just need to start a conversation about sports or his hobbies. If you like him then ask one of his buddies if he loves you back. And if you bring along a group of buddies to talk to them then it won’t be as awkward. Don’t care about what anybody else thinks i know it is hard especially in middle college but just stay true to yourself and your buddies will back you up. And if they don’t they are not true friends. Don’t be weird with guys they are just like us and believe me they are nervous around us too but they don’t want to admit because they are guys and they are “too cool” to admit it so go for it and don’t get nervous. Hope this helped
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