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Sep
I can’t tell if she’s interested or not, given these facts please HELP!!?
I recently started chatting on the internet with a woman I went to high college with. We never spoke up until now. Chatted for about an hour and that was it. The following week she initiated conversation with me and asked my advice on a few general things. I then chatted with her the next day to follow up from our previous conversation and then I told her I had to run. Few days after that we were talking and she told me she was looking for a job, I told her I had contacts in the field she was interested in and I eventually set her up with a job interview. I emailed her the details for the job and my cellphone number was shown in my email signature. A few hours after I sent the email she messages me jokingly making fun of a show I love and she hates. We banter via message back and forth for a while and then I said goodnight. I dont talk to her at all the next day but the day after that I start chatting with her about regular stuff like we always did. Finally, that night I message her a funny quote from the show (Which I think is funny and she doesn’t) and we’re texting each other back and forth for about 2hrs. Then I tell her I’m playing a poker game and she wished me luck I said thanks and that was it. I chatted with her next day, she tells me she’s going to NYC for the long weekend and dont message her or anything until today (tuesday) 4 days passed without any communication. So, I ask how her trip went and we texted back and forth for about an hr before finally saying goodnight.
Now, the relationship we have is kind of playful bantering, I want to know if she just generally just a cool woman and gets along with everyone or if she might be interested? In all honesty, I was wishing for her to message me first after she got back. Why did I have to initiate it when I was the one to initiate it last and left the last message. This is what throws me off about her being interested or not. If she really was shouldn’t she start the conversation sometimes? The only times she initiated the conversation was the second time we chatted and when she first texted me. Secondly, how should I proceed? Any help would be much appreciated. Thanks in advance!
I don’t know about her but you are surely interested. Anyways just casually ask her for a coffee, and stuff will be more clear when you talk to someone personally.All the best.
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I am the Guru of the World!
I shall breakdown the possible explanations of your predicament and I shall break it down to you by percentage of what is more likely to be the case.
63% From the stuff you are telling everyone, it looks to me that she is not as interested as what your mind is telling you. You might be deceiving yourself, making stuff more important than it truly is. Look at it this way, if you were to initiate most of the interactions then perhaps this woman may just be bored and had nothing to do during those the moments.
35% Maybe, you are more interesting than you appear. We, the readers, do not actually know who you really are, so there is a probability that she is a bit interested. The chances are that it may be possible but less likely. For now anyways.
1.3% She happens to be using you to get that job. Connections, that might just be what you are to her.
0.7% She is a crazy person, who wants to do undesirable stuff to you. She might be a cannibal, wanting to eat your brain.
There you have it! Now my advice to you is you should ask yourself: are you really interested in her? Because if you are, then proceed with the initiation and that 35% might just go up! Be yourself and don’t try to make it seem as though you are so desperate to find love!
Love is just a conceptual thing that is dramatically emphasized in society. So do yourself a favor and be careful what you open up now. Only time will tell what happens!
More words of advice: The human mind revolves around self-interest and everything we do, we do with the desire to advance our lives!
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