When you become attached to someone you usually end up in a relationship (possibly with your hand) or with one-itis. One-itis is when you think your one girl is so special and better than all the others. Whether it was a relationship or one-itis, getting over it always hurts. Although this is kind of out of pick up and more into relationships I’m still going to go over it. These are the ways to get over your heart-break.

Dumped – You’ve been dumped and it sucks, but you’ll get over it. The solution of GFTOW (Go Fuck Ten Other Women) works, but there are some flaws. Your game will be shit because you feel like shit, the amount of time it takes to actually fuck ten different women (which may be a blessing in disguise because that time will help you get over your old girl) can be astronomical, and when you’re dumped you still have that emotional connection, so it’s very likely you’ll transfer it to the next girl you meet and become too needy, too fast.

You Can’t Get Her – Let’s say she is unobtainable. Meaning you already screwed things up, you don’t want to break the “don’t shit where you eat” rule, or some other reason. It’s rare that you’re going to get one-itis for a girl that’s rejected you while sarging, because if you’re sarging the rejection should happen pretty quickly. You won’t have enough time to become attached. If you can’t pick her up because you don’t shit where you eat, there’s not really a solution, it just sucks. I’ll admit it’s happened to me on more than one occasion.

To get over her, here’s what to do:

1. When you masturbate don’t think of her
2. Focus on something else, you have other hobbies don’t you?
3. Stop thinking about her (I know, I know, easier said than done)
4. GFTOW (ditto)
5. Emphasize all the things that she does that you hate. Remember the negative things about her. And none of that “but she’s perfect” bullshit. No one is perfect and I’m sure there are things you don’t like about her. When I say remember negative things about her, be careful that you don’t get in the habit of thinking negatively. Being pessimistic won’t help anything.

Here’s a quick example to help explain number 5: I had a girl that I started to like, but I had a class with her so I wouldn’t try to pick her up. So I took two things I didn’t like about her, her hairstyle and the way she walked. These are relatively small things, but they work. So whenever I felt like I was getting too attached to her I remember how much I hate the way she walks and how the hairstyle just doesn’t flow. After about a week I was over her. Simple as that.