This is an example of how you would progress from sitting there to sex. This is just an example, if you don’t like it there are thousands of other ways to go about it. This is a classic 2 steps forward 1 step back escalation. Almost every method uses that style. Use patience and anticipation to your advantage.

1. Hand massage

Hand massage is very non-threatening so it’s a good place to start. Simply say give me your hand and then begin. If you don’t know how to hand massage, go to this webpage http://www.aromacaring.co.uk/Hand%20massage.htm . It will give you enough information to get the job done. You don’t have to use a lubricant for hand massage, but if want to and don’t have massage oil, lotion is a suitable substitute.

2. Drop her hand and talk

3. Shoulder/Back Massage

Now that you’re on to shoulder and back massage you need to begin using your seductive voice. That means your going to be speaking lower, softer, and slower. Make sure you ask her what she likes. Some girls like their massages soft while others can take some punishment.

4. Stop massaging and continue talking.

5. Smell her

She should have her back to you if you were just massaging her. Lean up an put your nose about halfway up her neck. Slide it down to her shoulder while smelling her. Your cheek should rub up against her neck as you do this. Tell her (baritone voice) she smells good.

6. Go back to massaging or just talking

7. Bite her

Very close to smelling, but in order to not freak her out, tell her you’re going to bite her first. Rub your lips lightly from mid-neck right to where the neck and the shoulder meet. Now open your mouth so that your teeth slide along her skin and then grab a big hunk (not a little pinch) and bite down with reasonable force and slowly slide your teeth together. Don’t worry about any saliva you leave on her skin. There shouldn’t be much in the first place and it’s unlikely she’ll even notice anyway.

8. Resume massaging/talking

9. Kissing

Turn her over and put your hand on her cheek so that your fingers are near the back of her neck and your thumb is pointing up. Gently move your thumb back and forth and look into her eyes (or triangular gaze). Go in very slowly for the kiss and as soon as your lips touch pull back. Look into her eyes once more, and then go in (slowly) for the kill.

10. Rub Down

Stop kissing and begin to rub your hands along her body. You can do this everywhere but the crotch and breasts. Slide your hand along her thighs and the sides of her stomach. You can also slide your hands over the sides and possibly the top of her breasts, just don’t leave them there. She is much less likely to object if your hands are going elsewhere and they happen to slide past her boobs as compared to just placing them there.

11. Make-Out

Start to kiss more passionately. While kissing slowly slide your hand up her back and into the hair on the back of her head. Grab it and pull down (try this on yourself so you can feel how hard to pull). As you pull her head backward move your kissing down her neck.

12. Off with the shirt!

As you start kissing her body, slide your head down between her breasts and stomach. When your head is at her belly button pull up her shirt a bit and kiss her right above the belly button. Leave the shirt part way up and make your way back to her lips. While kissing slide the shirt fully off.

13. Continue to make-out

14. Preparation

Now you’re going to prepare her bra and pants for removal, but you’re not going to take them off. The first thing you’re going to do is reach around and unclip the bra. If she seems to have a padlock on the thing and you can’t get it don’t worry about it, we’ll deal with that later. If you do get it just leave the bra unhooked, don’t take it off. Next, kiss your way down to her belly button again. Undo the top button and move back up to her lips. Do this twice more unzipping halfway on the second trip and the rest of the way on the third.

15. Resume the make-out

16. Turn her on

Reach down and rub her under the jeans but over the panties. See if you can make her moan ; ).

17. Go back to kissing and rubbing

18. Sex

Take her bra off (should be pretty easy if you unclipped it). If you couldn’t get it before just ask her for help. You should be far enough along that she will comply. Then reach under her panties and remove both the jeans and panties at the same time. Use your dick to play with her clitoris and tease her for a bit, then have sex.

I know your probably thinking that this will take rediculous amounts of time and to tell you the truth it can. But it’s going to stop a lot of resistance you will encounter. All I ask is that you try it before you reject it.