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Jan
PLEASE HELP!!! should i end this or not?
Ive been going out wit this girl for over a year but, shes been consistently getting more and more negative about things and no matter Wit i do, stuff cant jest b OK to her. I do love her and she says she loves, and all r friends and all my family has said ive given 110% to this relationship, and ive told her honestly how i feel about the personality shes developing, but I feel that she doesnt care how she acts about things or towards me, Cus she hasnt become better only worse. ID if i should break up wit cus i do love her but, i dint feel i can b happy wit the selfish non-compromising disrespectful personality tht has been and is growing more and more as time goes on. So wut should i do end it or not?
dude – straight up, you only live once…..shouldnt it make you happy
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hell ya dump her
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End the relationship. When you find the perfect one you will know because you will enjoy being with each other adn everyone is going to be happy. Just say to yourself I deserve better than this
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Well, If youre not happy with things, and theyre not getting better then id end it because id want to be with someone who has a few kinks here and there but not enough to get on here and ask if I should stick with them.. You get me? I understand that you love her, but sometimes you gotta move on from things. Who knows, if you end it maybe shell wake up and if she loves you as much as she says she does, shell fix it and you can get back together.
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dont end it please dont! if shes depressed then she needs u more then ever. if shes not then u need to talk about the way shes acting. the worst thing with guys is that they never talk to girls to see whats wrong!! so talk to her!! maybe its what she wants. try to figure out whats wrong and find out if she even knows that shes acting that way. If u love her (of course) do not break up with her! never break up with someone u love for a stupid reason such as this one. maybe shes just going thru a phase and u need to wait it out. please dont break up with her cuz that would make u a jerk. use some common sense
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sometimes after awhile, people let their bad sides out more because they feel they can and there will be no consequences. you need to PROVE to her that you expect a person to be derserving of your company and to be deserving they need to be nice, postive, etc.
Would she expect anything less of you?
She is simply taking you for granted and the only way to knock some sense into her is to break up with her temporarily so she knows you mean business. You need to say, until you can be nicer and treat me with more respect, I will not hang out with you. I love you but i expect more in a girlfriend because i deserve the best. tell her you know the girl she is inside and until she can get back to that person, you need to remain broken up. she will not fully understand until you make it serious like this.
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If youve talked to her about it and shes not doing anything about it then theres no point staying in the relationship… she knows how you feel and if shes gonna be stupid enough to carry on acting that way then she doesnt deserve you. Even though you love her, if youre not happy now then all that staying with her for another year is gonna do is make you unhappy for another year. Give her an ultimatum: change or its over!
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You say that shes been getting more negative about things, but you dont say what things. If she has just become more negative and pessimistic then she could be under some stress. Before you break up with her, sit down with her and ask what is bothering her. Give her some time…people dont usually just change their attitudes for no reason. Shes still the same girl you fell in love with, and she may need you to be supportive right now. If she wont open up to you, admit how you are feeling and ask if she is unhappy or if she wants to break up.
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Well why dont you sit down and ask her why she is being so negative and what is bothering her. If she says there is nothing wrong and thats just how she is then maybe you should consider breaking up with her. Hope this helped
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I can relate to this. Im going through something similiar right now. Im in a relationship with a woman who has been going back and forth with how she feels about me and our relationship constantly. weve been dating about 5 months now. The thing is she is living with a guy who she claims is no longer her bf but is just helping her get on her feet. But she says she loves me blah blah blah. Wants to be with me. And I love her too. But she will turn around the very next day or week and be unsure about things again. Ive about had it. were still together but if this doesnt change soon I am moving on. Same advice I would give you about your situation. I know its hard cause you love her. BUT, you deserve to be happy and if she wants to be miserable all her life you have to just cut your losses and move on. My gf even moved in with me at one point, moved back out. Weve broken up about 5 times in the last 5 months. Anyway, good luck to you
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