09
Sep
She’s always late and now, not responding. What should i do?
So I had a couple dates with this one woman I really like. The first time we hung out, she was thirty minutes late. Second date, she showed up an hour and a half late. I was a little flustered but I dealt with it. I took her to Santa Barbra and to a nice Italian restaurant. I had so much fun w/her and we spent the entire day together. Third date, she is SIX HOURS late. We were supposed to get together at noon. Her excuse: family obligations. I didn’t sit and wait for her. I actually cleaned my entire apartment, went to get food, bathed and cleaned my cat, cleaned my car, etc. She showed up at 6:15 stayed for 10minutes and had to leave because she had to be at a sorority meeting. During those 10minutes, I told her off (in a calm, nice way), telling her that I was upset and she needed to update me, either that or cancel/reschedule. She looked cute sad, but she looked kind of mad with her hands on her hips all defensive like. I asked her if she had any input or opinion she said “No you’re right.” I told her my pet peeve is flakiness. She responded “Oh then you probably won’t like me then. Things come up, with my family and stuff..so yeah.” It’s been a day and i thought about it. Maybe I should give her another chance, I said to myself. I called her two and a half hours ago. Left her a voicemail. No response. Not even a text. I’m cute 
. What should I do now? I wanted this to work and I treated her well w/kindness..why is she being like this?
That is just not considerate towards you and she certainly puts herself first. I don’t think this would be something you would appreciate and considering she didn’t do it just once but many times then take that as your cue to just let her go.
She must be a gemini. hahaha! Kidding.
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Hmm well the last sentence you said you treated her with kindness?? Thats not kind but you are right! Flakieness is soooo annoying and would bother me also. But then again you may not know what is going on with her family. Now when you were comfronting her with your feelings she realized your not right for her. When she said “Oh then you probably wont like me,” she means that bothers her that you my not understand. Its hard to explain, but the reason she isnt answering your calls or texting you is because she already forgot about you
I know you were just telling her how you feel and thats great so obviously you two arnt ment to be 
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I wouldn’t waste your time. When you 1st start seeing someone it shouldn’t be complicated. It should be fun and enjoyable every time. Lol well usually until around the 3-5 month when you really get to know that person and their flaws lol. I think that if she is demonstrating that type of behavior already that it will only get worst if you continue on with the relationship. There is no reason for someone to be 6 hours late what so ever. If she cared at all about how her action could effect you she would have called and informed you or canceled. Her actions were rude, disrespectful, and selfish. You should not allow guys to treat you that way. There are many more fish in the sea, just consider that one a stupid catch and throw her @ss back. Let someone else deal with that dysfunction.
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