08

Sep

What’s my ex girlfriends deal?

Me and my ex (6 year relationship) have been broken up for a little more than 2 months now. The first month after the breakup i did the typical begging, pleading, and talking I could do, which of course didn’t work.

Well finally a few wks ago I got ill of her “stringing” me along and told her I couldn’t deal with all the contact we were still having.

Fast forward a few wks and she still can’t go more than 5 days of NC without her breaking it (She always breaks it).

Lately I can’t figure out her deal. I know she has been hanging out with another man some but I still haven’t thought of it too be anything to serious.

A little more than a week ago we were suppose to be at the same as outing as some other buddies and literally the night before the event she sends me a message asking if I’d get mad if she invited him. I was honest with her and told her if she brought him I probably wouldn’t go anymore. She didn’t bring him…… (confuses me)

After that night we went our “whole” 5 days before she sent me a message stating she hoped I had been having a nice week, and proceeding to ask me if I had gone somewhere a few nights back.

Finally 3 days ago we had another outing that she might have been attending, well we changed the location and seeing how I’m such a nice guy, I told one of my buddies to message her and let her know where it would be. That night I got a message from her asking why couldn’t I message her myself to let her know. I told her I wasn’t going to. Her response was “That’s really sad that if you need 2 get info 2 me you won’t even tell me urself :/”

I’ve actually been doing good, and taking each day as it is, but I can’t figure out her actions. She knows I want to get back together and this is what she does.

Any ideas?

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